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The Real Question.....

Is it enough already? What is the one question which we all need to ask once to our self and that is –When is it enough? When is it enough for us? Enough is when we have the sufficient amount to live our life peacefully. But for most of us just having enough isn’t enough. People works hard, putting their soul and heart, just to manage to get enough for them. But in the struggle of getting what one needs, one forgets when to stop. One after another, constantly wanting things, desiring needs, which are not necessary but seem so important for a moment. People are grabbing things like a drowning man to a slab of wood, hastily and without any thinking. This constant need of things after things makes the man greedy and ultimately leads to regretful ending. Now-a-days, our lives revolve around this constant desire. And it is never ending. Once we get something, the satisfaction of getting it makes us to get more of it and yet more and more. We don’t realise when we should

Faith and You !

FAITH We have to put our faith to use in many different areas and it’s the first thing that gets berated. Faith is a small word but has the power to move mountains and make people fall for another person. But do we really understand the true meaning of faith? Do we use the word appropriately in our life? And how does the word affects the natural course of your life. If we look into the meaning of the word, faith, it implies a complete trust and confidence in someone or something or a strong belief in God or in the doctrines of any religion. Hence, faith is the important in every relationship or any religion. Keeping religions aside, I’m here to talk about the fact that faith plays the most important part in any relationship. Whether parent and child relation or girlfriend and boyfriend or husband and wife relations, all are based on the pillars of trust and trust and confidence builds ultimately to “faith”. So if we look into patching things up in any broken relati

What is your personal agenda?

Personal Agenda Everybody has a very active mind which generates and processes many thoughts every seconds. And among those thoughts there is always one or few personal agendas which are kept hidden to themselves. People always keep it secret because they don’t trust others with their own thoughts and they try to keep it this way also because they think if anybody knows about it then they might start judging you even before they try to understand you. I have just taken a few things from here and there and while writing this I discovered few things about myself as well, as again life is a journey of self-realisation. Again I want to share a piece of my mind and it does not apply that everybody has the same features that I am talking about. Coming back to the topic, one of the main things that I have noticed is that people allow thoughts to enter. People don’t just think of doing something in a moment. Everybody has two options, either to do it or to not to do it. And this

Perception and us.

Perception Perception or the way you see the world around you is the most creative power of human beings. We are the only ones who can view an object in more than one ways. Not in the different angles but different perceptions. Only humans can perceive differently than the rest of its species. Unlike any other living being. And the people don’t realise this power of theirs and use it every single day. Perception changes everything, right from the way you see things, believe things or even trust issues. It’s the perception that creates the illusions and personalities of each person. They create the bubble around them and which sometimes is hard to penetrate and hence making them cynical and different from the rest of the people. The most mysterious and awkward thing is that the world senses this cynicism and treats it absurdly and in the most unimaginable way ever. In lay man terms, the world senses your fear and exploits it. And that my friends are the way of the wo

How Passer-bys change your life?

Passer-Bys Our life is a journey and we are the travellers, we all can agree on this. But we all have to agree the point as well that the passer-bys also affect our journey of life and can change your paths in ways one cannot imagine. They happen to come into life just when you don’t expect them. All we can say is when you meet a stranger and your paths in life intersect our fates intersect too. And having all those interactions with passer-by’s your life changes around them as well. This is one of the most beautiful woven thread of the life by the nature. I believe that these passer-bys effects the way we live and how much they can change your everyday day-to-day as well. If we speak about the them in the true sense of their importance in our life then we already know that they bring the twist in life like every great mystery has a plot which is built up but unexpectedly comes a twist, same happens with our life with passer-bys. They act like a secret ingredient of

Fame - Is it Good or Bad?

FAME Fame is the outcome of all the hard work and time and patience which one commits. Fame comes with and only with dedication towards your work. None becomes famous without giving everything. And I have read and heard about many famous personalities, who tell their tales of journey towards the fame. Everyone story has one thing in common, that is, that all of them didn’t quit even if they faced failures and were 100% dedicated towards their work. I am not here to speak about the ways to be famous or how one becomes famous. Instead, I’m here to bring out or discuss the about the fame and its good side as well the bad side. Basically, more about the dark side of the fame. So what is fame? The answer lies in the word- famous, but fame for different person is different. For one it can be just getting richer and celebrity status, for someone it may be recognition due to his work in any respective field, and for someone it may be just be able to influence a crowd. Lucky are

What causes us to drift away from the real us?

Social erosion Unlike soil erosion, which is removal of the fertile layer of soil due to external factors, social erosion is removal of the good and happiness inside us due to the outside factors. The little part inside us which keeps us motivated for being happy and carefree about the outside world dies slowly when someone around acts like pollutant by being a complete demotivational. Telling things which you often don't realise but when you do you can't stop thinking about it. The most outrageous fact is that when any such thing happens then one starts questioning its own existence and becomes a part of the dull world of unfaithfulness, disturbance and grief. The self is strong enough to handle one or two such person but when the intensity rises, it cause erosion effect within us and leaves us bare. Such people who caused this unwanted situations are the main cause for social erosion. Social erosion, is according to me, when you loose a part of yourself and turn dark.