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What is your personal agenda?


 Personal Agenda


Everybody has a very active mind which generates and processes many thoughts every seconds.  And among those thoughts there is always one or few personal agendas which are kept hidden to themselves. People always keep it secret because they don’t trust others with their own thoughts and they try to keep it this way also because they think if anybody knows about it then they might start judging you even before they try to understand you. I have just taken a few things from here and there and while writing this I discovered few things about myself as well, as again life is a journey of self-realisation.

Again I want to share a piece of my mind and it does not apply that everybody has the same features that I am talking about. Coming back to the topic, one of the main things that I have noticed is that people allow thoughts to enter. People don’t just think of doing something in a moment. Everybody has two options, either to do it or to not to do it. And this decision drives our actions. If we control that capability and choose wisely taking in all the consequences and understanding the situation we can clearly make a right decision. When we allow something or somebody to enter into our minds it creates a persona. A persona which revolves around that one thought. Now the real question is do we have a choice of whom to let in and whom to not? Can we understand the real value even before interacting with it?

To answer all the questions, we have to first understand that the decision to let a thought enter your mind is not made by the conscious mind but rather happens in the background by the sub-conscious mind and that is beyond our reach. Sub-conscious mind not only cannot be controlled by an average human being but also is beyond reach. But we all can agree that we all have one. So this sub-conscious mind feeds up on the information we expose our self to and runs in the background, and most often it creates an image or personality we try to become or we hope to become or we envy it and want it in our life. Our personal agenda or motive is highly affected by the personality we tend to have in our sub-conscious mind. Please note that, the personality we portray isn’t mostly the personality we have in our sub-conscious mind. And I am not speaking for the whole crowd but if you have been here then you will realise whatever I am saying is true.

In the end, to put it in simple words I can just say that, our personal agendas and motives of life can be varying from others but it is not us who controls them, but it is our sub-conscious mind that decides the course of action for the completion  of those motives.

And I am sorry for posting so late, I have been occupied with other stuff. I hope you get to learn anything and join in for more. Read more of my posts on day to day life by joining in and become a part of me.
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