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How Passer-bys change your life?


Passer-Bys


Our life is a journey and we are the travellers, we all can agree on this. But we all have to agree the point as well that the passer-bys also affect our journey of life and can change your paths in ways one cannot imagine. They happen to come into life just when you don’t expect them. All we can say is when you meet a stranger and your paths in life intersect our fates intersect too. And having all those interactions with passer-by’s your life changes around them as well. This is one of the most beautiful woven thread of the life by the nature. I believe that these passer-bys effects the way we live and how much they can change your everyday day-to-day as well.



If we speak about the them in the true sense of their importance in our life then we already know that they bring the twist in life like every great mystery has a plot which is built up but unexpectedly comes a twist, same happens with our life with passer-bys. They act like a secret ingredient of the recipe of our life. One never knows how a stranger may become a family. Sometimes a stranger or in our case a passer-by gives an advice which no one else suggests. Everything that happens with us is written in the stars and I strongly approve of this belief. One just have to find the motive of his life and things may feel rough at the beginning but later on all things fall in line and you tend to live more peacefully. Even the people in your life come with a purpose. And everyone is entitled to a job that they have to fulfil as being a passer-by for someone else.

Over the years, I may have not seen much, but I have come to the understanding that these passer-bys sometimes, sometimes become the cause of worthless irritation. These passer-bys sees you happy come into your life, kick your metaphorical ass, and then when they spoil your day they slip out of the situation like they weren’t even there. Or there are times when a passer-bys who you think they are is not what their actual personality is. Sometimes you get tricked by some sneaky cons who just take advantage of you and leave you at your own despair. Speaking of which, I have to admit that being taken advantage of or being mistreated leaves a stain which Is hard to remove. So we also have to be careful around the passer-bys who interact with you because one should not judge a book by it’s cover.

In the end all I can say is that people, stranger or passer-bys of life can bring so much value and sense to once life. We care less for them, and we should be more appreciative towards them, keeping in mind that we cannot lose control of our surroundings and in this case the control of our lives to a stranger. We have to be alert while being interactive and supportive of the passer-bys in the life and understand there importance.

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