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THE REAL ME!!?

WHO AM I?

A few days earlier, I was asked whether I am the same person in reality as I portray myself in front of others or I am different when no one is looking? Honestly I would not say that I am exactly the same in front of others as I am in reality, but to some extent my nature is similar in front of others as well as in person. Saying that, I should ask you to listen to me first before judging me on this point. I believe that nature should be handled properly.

But first, lets understand what makes or defines our nature. Our nature is made or effected by how we our brought up, our surroundings and also by peers we keep around. And how we behave should be governed by the situation. For example, having a sarcastic behaviour or attitude in a situation which is sorrowful can be harmful. So here, I question whether being oneself in every situation is a good idea or not? Being same in every scenarios, does it really pays off or not? Should we be different in front of others or a group of different opinions then that of yours.



So the real point is that every once in a while or every time when we are in a public place where we don't know what kind of opinion the others hold, we tend to become something which we believe is an ideal nature or portray something which is not natural to our real nature. So our behaviour is never constant. Or our nature is resilient which forms a new nature and deforms back to the original self.

I cannot comply with the fact that anybody is of same nature or behaviour in front of everybody. Yes, and also I am not saying that everybody is double-faced in nature, its just that all of us want to create a beautiful first impressions in front people whom we do not know and hence bring out the best of us. We are, in most cases, afraid that being oneself can be gravely bad in some situations. The bet example, which most of us have gone through and in which we are told to not to be oneself, is during the interviews for any kind of job opportunity. The main goal is to impress the interviewer and hence we only put the best parts and bits of our nature.

Hence, our nature or behaviour in front of others is highly dependent of the conditions we are faced with. And this is my take on this, and I believe most of you will have your own opinion about it and may or may not agree with me. This is my point of view and nothing is forced on to be true.

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