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The Golden Era !

CHILDHOOD
After winning your first race of life, you come to this world. And after the patiently waiting for nine months, you are the most precious gift of your parents. The most beautiful moments in your life comes from your childhood. Childhood is best part of most of the people. With your numb lips and poopy pants you also do things which not only become memorable for the people around you as well as for you when you grow up. Unlike the high tension filled life of now, those were the days when you had no issue even if you pooped in your pants or proposed a girl in your kindergarten. So by far those were really the Golden Era of most our Lives.
Let's talk about the memorable things we might have did when we were small toddlers or probably younger boy/girl. With everything you do you learn things which you can apply in your daily life.

We all have done things which we look back, like learning to walk or riding your bike for the first time without training wheels. Waiting for your parents to get you ready for school, and of course the first day of your school. Who forgets the first day of your school? Either you are the kind of baby who cries a lot and struggles to leave your parent's hands or you are that kind of child who says nothing but comes back home with lots and lots of stories. Yes, remembering all this is not possible for any of us, yet we get to know the stories from our parents or relatives. 

Yet all these moments are important to us. May not be consciously but unconsciously it is required. The experiences we have in our childhood provides us experiences which have a long lasting affect on our sub-conscious mind. We learn many things during our childhood which significantly affects our psychological development. Many habits we inculcate in our childhood which stays with us forever. The childhood we experience creates and defines who you are and what kind of person who will become in the future. It also develops cognitive, physical, emotional and social abilities of the child for the future. And hence your childhood is very much important and I know saying it now won't change anything but it may change the way you look a child next time and understand that each and everything what a child does or is taught goes long way with that child in his/her life.

Hence, the Golden Era of our lifetimes, which we won't be able to live again, has the answers to who we are today. Living without tension in life and doing whatever you want, is now seen by most of us as the paradise which we have lost in time but which we need now desperately. But children now a days are losing those memorable moments of their life from their lives dues to the interventions of technology in our daily life. Children now, don't know the joy of climbing a tree, but know that socially they have to be active to gain popularity. Childhood now has become a virtual reality for all the children, not in the literal sense of the VR but metaphorically.We shouldn't hand our kids mobile phones or tablets just so that we don't have to look around them. We should give time to them as it is the most important part of their life which they won't get back latter on but will want it.

I miss my Golden Era and would do anything to live it once more, because you can't get enough of it ever. There is a child inside all of us. Childhood is the period when you are careless and other care more for you.




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