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The two best friends of life.

Lie & Truth

The two best friends is the apt name for the two pillars of our life which are of the most importance. The great Lie which is always contrasted by the evergreen Truth. The perfect villain-hero combination of our lives. Lie teaches us to be creative in tough times but its never tells us that its the wrong way to deal with any situation. Whereas on the other hand, Truth reminds us that its not always about escaping from the situation. Both affects our life very differently but to some extent in a similar manner.

The reason we we tell a lie or truth is the directly related to out nature and how we see any situation. Our brain tells us whether to tell what's right or what's wrong. But how does it affect our daily lives?
Well, to understand this, we have to look how it affects our decisions and our behavior. 

When we lie, we not only hide the information but also decrease our self-esteem. A lie can destroy whole life of yours. Lie a small word but is the root cause for many problems in our life. It creates a delusion in our life, creates a false reality. It may seem that a lie is necessary sometimes and we are also brought up saying that if lied to do some good, then the lie doesn't remains a lie. But it cannot be possible. A lie remains a lie whatever the case maybe. It may just delay the outcome but can never change the truth.

Speaking of Truth, truth is the only power a man has to be righteous forever. A truth can hurt a person for a few moments but will never really hurt a person. Truth and honesty, being the same thing not only creates the path for righteousness but also develops your character. Your being truthful to yourself brings up your self-esteem. Haven spoken lies myself, I know how it damages relationship, your environment as well as your self-respect. It gives you sleepless nights, when your consciousness hits you. But like I have said earlier, everything has it's exceptions, and so does this. A person who isn't conscious about him self and the people near him, he can lie without breaking a sweat. And likewise, a person full of self-esteem and respect will never bend to say a lie to anyone. But being a human being we do things which we regret at some point in our life.

I have seen how a lie breaks down to several other lies and creates a mess which can't be cleaned. And therefore, its said that "Its better to say the truth rather than lying" because if you say the truth you don't have to remember anything but if you lie you have to remember everything.

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