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Social erosion Unlike soil erosion, which is removal of the fertile layer of soil due to external factors, social erosion is removal of the good and happiness inside us due to the outside factors. The little part inside us which keeps us motivated for being happy and carefree about the outside world dies slowly when someone around acts like pollutant by being a complete demotivational. Telling things which you often don't realise but when you do you can't stop thinking about it. The most outrageous fact is that when any such thing happens then one starts questioning its own existence and becomes a part of the dull world of unfaithfulness, disturbance and grief. The self is strong enough to handle one or two such person but when the intensity rises, it cause erosion effect within us and leaves us bare. Such people who caused this unwanted situations are the main cause for social erosion.  Social erosion, is according to me, when you loose a part of yourself and turn dark....

FRIENDS Yesterday, I was watching a movie called, Tag , which was about a group of friends, anyways, the movie touched my heart and made me realise that how important your friends can be in your life. We tend to forget the importance and place of friends in your life in this hectic lifestyle. We have to understand who matters the most and who doesn’t.  We have to prioritize our work schedule as well as our social life. Optimising the social life is equally important as optimising work space. Life is highly influenced and affected by the group of company we keep. There being both positive and negative side to everything, friendship also has its pros and cons. I have seen how people help their friends in need and do anything they can, but also I have seen how a friend can destroy just because they have a grudge and doesn’t show it to you. People wearing mask while being a friend is the worst thing which one could possibly experience. People have to understand whom to cho...

VIBES Speaking of vibrations, in terms on science, is nothing but a particle that vibrates to and fro in a same position. But speaking in terms or in relation to us, humans, in intellectual level, vibrations are what we emit from our personality. How does it affect us? And what should we do in order to make use of these vibrations in a positive manner? Well many of us believe, or from where I come, that our soul is very powerful. It is a form of energy and if that energy is channelized in doing good then if benefits everyone. This vibrations, of which I am talking about , is known by different names in different cultures. These vibrations can not only be created by us but also transferred to another living being. Mastering the technique of channelling your vibrations in doing productive is the most difficult thing. And who ever does that, not only enhances his personality but also becomes successful in life. I strongly believe that what we think is going to happen with us, is ...

HATE Hate is a very strong word and shouldn’t be used as often as we do. We have to understand that hate can be very demeaning and hurtful. Hate is a strong feeling which not only can cause harm to others but also harms us on a intellectual level. Hate can lead to resentment and other negative feelings. People who are very volatile emotionally, generally end up using the this word. What causes us to say the word? We have to understand that, hate is an emotion, just like any other but it is the ultimate level to the negative pile. Let’s look at it this way, the process to getting to hating something starts from disagreement to disliking to irritation to finally hatred. So there are different sub levels within these levels also. We have to understand that, we usually skip or consider all these phases in fraction of seconds and jump to the conclusion by saying that you hate something.   What we have to consider is that before even saying the word, we can prevent us from goi...

BODY LANGUAGE Communication and body language comes hand-in-hand. Body language, as what we know, is just the tip of an iceberg, there is lot more than what just meets the eye. We don’t realise that body language is that non-verbal form of communication which not only speaks for us, but sometimes it portray more than just mere words. Body language can be an effective tool for one who knows about it. We all know a little about it, but little knowledge can be a dangerous thing. A charming personality comes from the way that person carries himself. Carrying oneself is nothing but the body language. Different regions of the world have different perceptions about each body language. Body language can be categorised into three major sections-the arms, the head and the legs body language. I must tell you that no one should believe a person on the first meet just because they have a good body language. A person can fake body language, but those people can’t hold their own pers...

Communication Since the first word ever spoken by manm the communication has evolved with the same pace as a man. Communication is nothing but expressing or conveying ones thoughts and feelings to one or many other, it can be in various forms. Communications is like that unsung hero in every life situation. Communication can be helpful or devastating depending on the different situations. It interesting how communication can affect your daily life or professional life and in either of them communication plays the most important role. Communication consists of several components and the precise combination of these components helps you to achieve success in the respective field. A lot can be read over books and internet about effective communication and one can even get a certification for being a better communicator. i have too learned about communication and its aspects but what we don’t get to know by our education system is how it effects our life as in any relationship. I...

ANGER Fall about in life with unexpected remorse and emotional break-down or failure, which is according to me just a part of life which we all face unwillingly. There is not a single person who willingly wants to fail and go down one step in the game of life. People stumble upon failure whenever they try to do something or make something, and we often have heard that our failures are the best teachers. But why do we fail? And what is that makes failure the best teacher? I bet we all know the answer but there is a little more to it than what just pleases the eye. Everyone thinks that a person failed in a particular task, only when he might have not worked hard enough for that particular task. I beg to differ because not always it is like that. Failure is an outcome of an activity done wrong or not how it should have been done. Failure also comes when a person fails to understand the situation. So what is it that makes us fail in a task? The answer lies within us and not ...