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Top best ways to identify a true friend !!

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Yesterday, I was watching a movie called, Tag, which was about a group of friends, anyways, the movie touched my heart and made me realise that how important your friends can be in your life. We tend to forget the importance and place of friends in your life in this hectic lifestyle. We have to understand who matters the most and who doesn’t.  We have to prioritize our work schedule as well as our social life. Optimising the social life is equally important as optimising work space. Life is highly influenced and affected by the group of company we keep. There being both positive and negative side to everything, friendship also has its pros and cons. I have seen how people help their friends in need and do anything they can, but also I have seen how a friend can destroy just because they have a grudge and doesn’t show it to you. People wearing mask while being a friend is the worst thing which one could possibly experience.

People have to understand whom to choose as a friend and whom to not. And I would like to share my points to help you to select them friends. Now people may already have friends, which is obvious, so for them these steps or points may help to find who matters and don’t. Some of these things you might have heard before but this is 100% efficient.

Top 5 steps to recognize who is a good friend and who isn’t:

1.  A true or honest friend will always back you up. This may sound obvious but we often never realise that some of our friends leave us when you need someone.

2. A real friend will is not the one who agrees with you in whatever you do, but has the gut to say the truth to keep you in the right track.

3.  A real friend never lets you down in front of others. 

4.  If you get to know that your friend speaks ill about you behind your back, then understand that that friends isn't your true friend.

5. If a friend stops you or indirectly prevents you from achieving something but does that thing himself, then one should understand that your friend doesn't want you to succeed.

 ·         And lastly, bonus tip a real friend will always know whether you are faking a smile or hiding something. A true friend understand your emotional state even if you try to fake it.

Let me remind you, I am not a psychologist but I have learnt from my share of mistakes and sharing it with you all, if you agree or have something to say, please let me know in the comments.
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