BODY LANGUAGE
Communication and body
language comes hand-in-hand. Body language, as what we know, is just the tip of
an iceberg, there is lot more than what just meets the eye. We don’t realise
that body language is that non-verbal form of communication which not only
speaks for us, but sometimes it portray more than just mere words. Body language
can be an effective tool for one who knows about it. We all know a little about
it, but little knowledge can be a dangerous thing. A charming personality comes
from the way that person carries himself. Carrying oneself is nothing but the
body language.
Different regions of
the world have different perceptions about each body language. Body language
can be categorised into three major sections-the arms, the head and the legs
body language. I must tell you that no one should believe a person on the first
meet just because they have a good body language. A person can fake body
language, but those people can’t hold their own personality in for too long.
These kind of people are very conscious about their behaviour and how they
portray themselves. And it is wise to not to judge a book by just it’s cover,
and in simple words body language is the key to a nice personality but not all
honest in portraying themselves.
Talking about body
language, it is necessary that we all should understand one thing that nody
language is inherent and cannot be acquired over time, it can be polished with
practise but cannot be inculcated at point in time. If someone tries to learn
the aspects of body language to change his/her personality than it might work for few days, but a time will
surely come when they will return back to their normal self. And it is not hard
to make out who is “bluffing” and who is honest. There are exceptions to this
statement as well, sometimes there are people who have created a fake fauna of
themselves, any scammers, cons, etc, can be put into this exception case. I
heard somewhere that, a great con never takes your money, we tend to give it to
them. We are so mesmerised by the charm and the personality that we believe
every word that comes out from their mouth. So what makes them so good? It the
way they carry themselves, nothing else but, body language. And thus teaching
us that great body language can build confidence, which is very essential. Like
any other great power, it can also be misused and hence beware.
At last I would I like
to say that body language depicts a lot about you and must be polished like any
other skill you have. The way you behave is the way you are perceived by
others.
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