Communication
Since the first word ever spoken by manm the communication has evolved with the same pace as a man. Communication
is nothing but expressing or conveying ones thoughts and feelings to one or
many other, it can be in various forms. Communications is like that unsung hero
in every life situation. Communication can be helpful or devastating depending
on the different situations. It interesting how communication can affect your
daily life or professional life and in either of them communication plays the
most important role. Communication consists of several components and the
precise combination of these components helps you to achieve success in the
respective field. A lot can be read over books and internet about effective
communication and one can even get a certification for being a better
communicator. i have too learned about communication and its aspects but what
we don’t get to know by our education system is how it effects our life as in
any relationship.
I wanted to know what was
the mistake I was making in my relationship, and found out that communication
holds the most vital position in making a relationship a successful one. Then I
looked for answers as to how communication in a relationship can be improved or
how it affects a relationship and all what I got was just one message in
various words, that - communication should be two way not one way and lack of
communication leads to a disruptive relationship. According to me, a
relationship is based on trust, as we all know, but the underlying fact that we
all miss out is that only trust isn’t enough, we need to have a good
communication system. Based on my personal experience, there has to be a good
communication system amongst both the person in any relationship.
What makes communication
so important? How does communication affect your relationship? Psychologists
suggest that communication makes one aware of the other persons thoughts making
both people stay on the same page. Relationship are built only if two people
are of same thought process and are able to understand each other. A relationship comes with acceptance,
acceptance comes with understanding, and understanding comes with proper
communication. This is the line which
nobody told me, it comes down to the edge of broken relationship when you where
you went wrong and you start looking for these stuff. If you have been in a
similar position then it will be easy for you to connect, if not then it may be
just another topic which might come handy in the life ahead. But mark my words
for I have seen those days where I wanted to have a conversation with the
significant other but that person was not there because I myself pushed that
person away. Coming back to the topic in hand, communication is just as
important as oxygen to us, humans. Even if we can’t see it, we can’t live
without it.
I just want you all to
realize that, though sometimes you may come to a point in life where you may
consider not talking to anybody or not communicating with anybody as it may
seem worthless, but the solution can only be found when to try to find it. If
we don’t communicate our thoughts, emotions and feelings properly then we are
abandoning our ability to socialize. A
small conversation changes lives. Proper communication keeps away most of the
problems in life. Hence, it is important that a man must know how, what, when,
and where to communicate.
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