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Dreams Dreaming is an action which is generally done when we sleep. Dreams are the creation of our sub-conscious mind. People tend to see things which may or may not be related at all. It’s a weird thing, but every time a experience a ‘deja-vu’, I always get a sense that I have seen it before in my dreams. I strongly believe that people can have premonitions or some sort of dreams which guide them in their real life. Dream are eccentric. But when talking about dreams or ambitions then these dreams are very much different then what we experience while we are asleep. Dreams or goals which you have are like those priceless jems which can lead you to become a successful person. I should nevertheless forget that not all dreams are approachable or valid, but sometimes we don’t realise the true potential of a dream, and quit it very soon. Just because you can’t think a way of reaching your dream position or destination, it doesn’t mean that those dreams are worthless or not...

Maturity We don’t get maturity with age, maturity is a choice. Its not something which we can inculcate within the stipulated period of time or with how many number of years we have lived. It comes with a decision, with a level of understanding of human behaviour and emotion. Maturity is something which is most required but only few have it, and those who possess it deals with less problems in life. Maturity which is also stated as adulthood is oftenly mistaken with the age. For example, if a person is of 20 years of age then he/she is expected to behave maturely. The most common statement we all must have heard in our lives during our educational era, mostly our teachers or mentors say to us, that “ behave like a mature person, you are a grown up now.” What is to be like a mature person? And does all grown ups are mature enough to be able to deal and handle every situation is a certain manner which the world sees as a “mature way”? Starting with the first area, wha...

Anger Anger, a feeling which all of us experience on a daily basis. It has become the main part of our lives. If I were to describe anger, then anger would be that feeling which makes you hit someone or destroy something. Rage or anger is the most dangerous emotion a man could express. An angry person is like a potential bomb, you never know when and on whom it may blow. And it not only destroys physically but also mentally. Today, Anger has become so prominent in our world that there are courses on anger management for people who are very aggressive and short-tempered. Being short-tempered, as we all know means that the person gets angry on every small incident. But why is that anger has become so protuberant these days?   Why is it harmful for us? And how can we overcome anger and become a peaceful being. In today’s world the main reason for our increased anger level is the over-exposure to aggressive content in social media or any other entertainment sources. We n...

DEPRESSION Depression is a state of being in which a person becomes less interested in living and also in taking part in any sort of activities. In other words he/she becomes inactive and succumbs to pains and loneliness, Many of you can connect to this if you have experienced depression of any sort. Now the question here is whether we   know what are the different kinds of depression and what causes it? For me, depression is the outcome of prolonged period of pain and state of being hurt. It’s like cancer, if not treated at its early stages, then can be fatal. But can we differentiate between being depressed or just being upset for something? That is the first thing to check when you think you are depressed. One should see whether it is just one thing which went wrong which is making you upset or it’s many things all together that causing pain in your life. And if it is depression then one should seek help. But most of the times, while being depressed we tend to s...

Lie & Truth The two best friends is the apt name for the two pillars of our life which are of the most importance. The great Lie which is always contrasted by the evergreen Truth. The perfect villain-hero combination of our lives. Lie teaches us to be creative in tough times but its never tells us that its the wrong way to deal with any situation. Whereas on the other hand, Truth reminds us that its not always about escaping from the situation. Both affects our life very differently but to some extent in a similar manner. The reason we we tell a lie or truth is the directly related to out nature and how we see any situation. Our brain tells us whether to tell what's right or what's wrong. But how does it affect our daily lives? Well, to understand this, we have to look how it affects our decisions and our behavior.  When we lie, we not only hide the information but also decrease our self-esteem. A lie can destroy whole life of yours. Lie a small word but is...

CHOICES A choice can become your epitome of character or become a disgrace of your life forever. The power of a choice is often realized when we use it and regret it later. Choice is the most important part of the life. The person we are directs the kind of choices we make. We easily categories the different types of people by just looking at the choices they make. One should not solely choose depending on what their heart says or what might look better, because there can be options which can be best. Choices depend on options and options are created by us. And we are often biased towards those options which are delusive and attractive. Hence, choosing the wrong options as most of the times the most attractive options are the wrong ones. We have to be more careful, and it’s not about the options we have it’s all about how we see any situation. A person can make mistakes by choosing what is wrong but that person has the potential in himself to change the decision he made. ...

CHILDHOOD After winning your first race of life, you come to this world. And after the patiently waiting for nine months, you are the most precious gift of your parents. The most beautiful moments in your life comes from your childhood. Childhood is best part of most of the people. With your numb lips and poopy pants you also do things which not only become memorable for the people around you as well as for you when you grow up. Unlike the high tension filled life of now, those were the days when you had no issue even if you pooped in your pants or proposed a girl in your kindergarten. So by far those were really the Golden Era of most our Lives. Let's talk about the memorable things we might have did when we were small toddlers or probably younger boy/girl. With everything you do you learn things which you can apply in your daily life. We all have done things which we look back, like learning to walk or riding your bike for the first time without training wheels. Wai...

Mistakes One simple question, but the answer is complicated. CAN YOUR MISTAKES DEFINE YOU? Theoretically, a mistake is an action or judgement which is misguided or wrong. But is it really that simple? Can one get away with a mistake without getting accused of doing it? In reality, yes, some people get away with it. Mistakes can be a lot more serious than the word sound. Often people use this word ignorantly, without actually understanding the true meaning of it.      Haven done many mistakes myself I know what it feels to be called guilty or being accused of the actions you too regret. Mistakes sure can define you. If person commits a mistake even after him/her being told not do it defines that it is in that person’s nature to do such things. If a person commits a mistake unknowingly he/she is defined as a fool or ignorant. But there is huge difference between being a fool and being an ignorant person. A fool is expected to stumble upon mistakes in his l...

Pain & Hard Times Life is journey and you have to keep going. In reality there is no Goal or Destination you can reach in the end of this journey. The only destination is death. But is doesn't mean that we cannot live our lifes to the fullest. We are brought up in such a manner that we tend to believe certain things. Even though those perceptions or norms are not valued to derived by us, we blindly believe them. One of such view of the crowd is that good times and bad times are temporary in nature and its better to leave the hard times on its own as time heals everything. But does time really heals everything or is it the people who heal things? Pain and hard times make you suffer, and most of the time people are unable to handle that. So why is pain so destructive? It all leads to our own self, one can make or destroy oneself. If a person has a wound, he won't leave it by it self to heal because in that way it may heal or the situation may worsen. Similarly, if you...

Life A simple four alphabets word, but do we really know what "Life" is? What it means? How can such a small word define something which is beyond imagination, which has infinite extensions to a particular object. We tend to differentiate things which have or have no life. But do we really our self truly understand its virtue. Hey guys!! In this blog I will be sharing some of my thoughts and some conceptions which I believe are less thought of but impacts us the most. I want to share my experiences with "Life" and what it thought me about itself as well as me. Have you ever thought, or is just me, that all this might be a dream? Have you ever been to any moment which you thought has already happened before a.k.a deja vu.? Why some people have a lot but some nothing. Is life what we know it is or is it something more bigger more beautiful more elaborate than we can imagine of? Having a mindset of the crowd can make you one of them. You will never be able...